Relationship - Whose who is who !!! -- PART - I

Relationship is like a ship carrying a relation (relation + ship). funny. But It surely means whose who is who and why who is whose who (not zoo zoo pls). Supposedly understood by (I don't know) but surely except me. A relation could be of a kind selfish, selfless, neutral or useless. It all depends on how we take it rather.

Now getting on to general terms and issues regarding flexible nature of relationships, it was quite easy on getting to the points to be portrayed, but somehow made it more precise. We follow numerous relationships in our day-to-day life. Its rather hard to describe or comment on each of them. Lately I managed to learn about some faithful, unfaithful, disturbing, pure relationships.

Talking about pure relationships, what is actually a pure relation? Well... Thinking for long time I got a stupid answer that 'It is pure' and few more minutes of brain drilling and fact counseling I felt it being selfless, unbiased, keen involvement and well poised. Almost thought of giving off an blogging idea for such a simple thought. Interesting suggestion from dhanno about 'Krishna and Meera, where Meera waiting for Krishna for her lifetime'. Now this is selfless and pure relation. Some have relationship with god. Wonder how they maintain it though. They try and prove their internal relation with god. I am not a disbeliever but it sounds weird and mostly my mind sparks with a question for them ... 'Is it pure or selfish?' (No limits for superhuman nature of doubting though... hee hee heee).

Taking our handle on to selfish relationships. Now this is better kind to discuss. If I start I can write a 5000 liner essay on it. Generally attitude and objective matters to score big in it. Simple, consider a relation just for a need of an hour or a relation that is gaining you positives or profits, possibly a gain in whatever field respective to the kind of relation. For example, A business relationship where both parties are in competition of earning big somehow with the help of others. Consider another example, Political relationship: Do I need to explain this relationship between two political individuals or parties?. There is a saying in politics - 'You cant be friends with a stranger selflessly, so beware'. Now this indicates what we actually were relying on. right? A selfish relationship.

Every other person in this age is selfish (except me... most commonly defended "interpretation" by all). Some have managed to top this field. What is ' Need Of An Hour ' is what makes one selfish and it has to reflect in the relationship one or the other way. But one has to understand its hindrances in future.

Coming out of selfishness I got a thought of Interim relationships. Interim here means achieving a thing permanently in a relation or being successful of getting the relationship to what it was intended for. Basically, this seems more challenging when we don't take relationships for granted. Read it again.

Generally we tend to have strong relationships with people having similar mentality or thought process. Better the tuning better is the hand on a relationship. Relationship is a package of trust, faith, better understanding, tuning as said, nature of a relation - maybe pure, selfish or may even be pathetic. Its again how you take it.

This was just a precise thought of any relationship. In the next part, I would go through personal and individual relationships and their funny as well as serious outcomes...
Summarized Part I to be continued Part II...

TanY.